Since I've gotten back to the US, I've reconnected with friends, bought a motorcycle, been flogged by UCLA, and returned to a normal American lifestyle. Luckily, I still haven't gotten withdrawals from Taiwan yet.. and I probably won't because I know I'll be back there sometime soon. A four-day winter break has made transitioning from academia to academia pretty fluid, and I can only complain about how short my break was! But...
This week, all of the Californians have gone out traveling Asia, especially since they get a week off of classes to properly celebrate Thanksgiving. To say the least, I've been working hard, excluded from temptations and distractions, rationing off bits and pieces of my homework assignments, one at a time. A seven-page paper, the design of my robot fish project, and several cups of 7-11 coffee--I've dedicated the past few days to (really) get ahead and fixate the rest of my December on enjoying Taiwan.
Spending the last 32 days of Taiwan will hopefully be memorable. I've spent time with family, exercised a good deal, met plenty of new friends, studied areas in engineering I thought I would never get to specialize in, learned more day-to-day Chinese, and really made some inspiring friends. Not only have they showed me how to get my party on, I've gained a little more inside of me than I thought.
I've really matured, especially in a place where my understanding of linguistics and how people speak is not fully under my grasp. It's difficult to understand how people think or feel when they speak in Chinese to me. I imagine reading a long news article about tragedy only to finish, realizing I had only captured the physical event and none of its inner feeling. Nonetheless, exposure to this linguistic nightmare has not only helped me learn more about Chinese words and phrases but also taught me a sense of patience, humility, and care in realizing others' emotions. There's really no other words to describe it.
Plans for the rest of my trip? Finish up all of my work--I have tons of assignments and tests to think about before I leave. I'll definitely have many more visits to this island. I do, however, need to go back to my grandmother's grave for the sake of my father's and my own. Coming here was a responsibility not only of my own to study a language and engineering skill but also of my dad's to renew spiritual grounds with my grandparents, relatives.
Expect to see pictures from a big, going-away party!
I just finished my last midterm today. It's been a crazy few weeks! Not only was I swamped with a bunch of work, I had midterms to take care of also. Can't forget having fun! I also played some volleyball games and had some delicious Mexican food.
A few weeks ago, I met this American/Mexican guy who was a Publicity officer at a Mexican restaurant, so he invited us over to his restaurant. Before I knew it, I was with 11 friends sitting at his restaurant for Taco Tuesday, which was all-you-can-eat tacos with a choice of meat, tortilla, sauce, etc. It tasted amazing, especially for not having Mexican food for so long!
In recent news, I've just learned about being able to go home for Winter quarter! This means I would be heading home by the beginning of January. To me this is a 50-50 situation, where it's a matter of whether or not I want to have fun. Going home would mean graduating on time and getting a job, whereas staying in Taiwan would mean spending money to have more fun and to travel. Ultimately, staying would postpone my graduation by at least two quarters--doesn't sound so good, especially with 33% tuition increases.
It looks like I'm heading home in the beginning of January. Until then, I'm going to continue studying and, on the side, hopefully have the time of my life.
By the way, I just recorded a song that I've been working on for awhile now. I never had the time to record it, especially since the walls are so thin in this dorm ;) Enjoy!